My oldest is heading off to high school this fall.
It’s a joyful milestone and (if I’m honest) a little sobering too. I’m reminded that I have only four more years with him under my roof. Four more years of shared stories, late-night conversations, sibling squabbles, and sharing a sigh together as we wait for our family’s slow eaters to just finish already. It’s not time to miss him yet, but already, I feel a small knot in my heart knowing the day will come when he steps out into the world on his own.
And yes, I know this is how it should be. I want my children to grow up, to find their way, to build their own homes and raise their own families. I look forward to telling embarrassing stories to my future grandchildren and becoming that retired pastor in the narthex, handing out warm chocolate chip cookies to the kids while telling them I baked them all myself.
In this season of parenthood, I’m struck by something simple and clear: I need to treasure the time I have with those I love right now. I need to be fully present, not just in the big events, but in everyday moments. And I need to prepare my children for what lies ahead — not just academically or practically, but spiritually.
More than anything, I want to help them grow as God’s children, so that when I’m not there to shepherd them in day by day, they will still walk in faith and hold tight to trusting God’s promises.
That’s not just a calling for parents. It’s a calling for all of us, as a community of faith. We are all part of the Body of Christ. Each of us has a part in helping the next generation learn what it means to live faithfully. We encourage them through prayer, being an example, sharing encouragement, and showing Christ-like love to each other.
As we, Bethlehem Lutheran Church, enter another season of new beginnings – whether it’s off to high school, going out of state for college, or simply adjusting to new routines – may we take time to cherish the people God has placed in our lives. May we also take time to prepare…to teach, to encourage, and to plant seeds of faith that will grow long after we’re gone.
Pastor Rod
